That Thing!

Can we be honest?

At the end of the day, one of the main things I want said about me is that I was authentic…I want it said that I lived in reality and that my life helped people out of their psychosis and into the world in which God meant us to live.

So, can you take a second to do the hard thing?

Can you really think about this question?   Are you ready?

Why do you do what you do?

(And I’m not talking about job titles here.)

Now, if you’re a good Christian, you might say something like “for the glory of God.” That’s probably not what I’m looking for out of you…but, if for some reason, that is your true answer, than you are either a liar or I want to set-up a time with you in a mentor/mentee relationship. The truth is, that on my good days I would say that too, and probably mean it. But I’m not asking for that.

What about on your bad days?

What about on the days you are unsure about yourself? Why do you do what you do then? I have been the way I am, and doing what I do (and I’m still not talking job titles here) in one way or another for a long time. In my worst days of faith, and in my best days, I have done my deal and been driven. And, to be authentic and honest, it wasn’t all for the glory of God. It was for That Thing. That Thing that drives me.

What is That Thing that drives you?

We are going to spend a lot of time on this blog talking about ways to be effective. We are going to talk about tons of different ways to make your ministry and yourself better. But, central to all of our discussion, is this idea.

You have to figure out what That Thing is for you and replace it, more often, with “for the Glory of God”.

That should be the focus of your quiet time. That should be the center of your sanctification. That needs to be your personal journey and your quest. And if you can’t totally explain it…Welcome to our journey.

Because (and here’s some authenticity for you), until you figure out That Thing enough to identify it and go and kill it….it will be That Thing that kills you…kills your ministry…kills your true effectiveness.

So…what is it? What is That Thing for you?

GOING LIVE!

So…I’m finally going live!

This is my blog.

I work in youth ministry and at an incredible church.  I am probably the most unlikely youth pastor in America (A story I’ll save for another day).  The best part is, for some reason, I get to do this amazing job. The strange part is, I am very different than the rest of you guys.

What could an old guy that’s good at systems and processes offer a bunch of young and talented visionaries, relationals, and creatives?

The answer is simple.  I can offer systems and processes.

Chances are that, if you’re reading this and looking at leadership,  you are a gifted person.

  • You may be a Visionary with huge ideas.  These ideas get the right people excited and you end up in charge…YOU JUST HAVE NO IDEA WHERE TO START OR YOU GET BOGGED DOWN HELPING THE PEOPLE THAT ARE TRYING TO YOU.
  • You may be a Creative and your unique and brilliant insights have earned you a couple of steps up the old corporate ladder.….YOU JUST HAVE NO IDEA WHERE TO START TO MAKE THE IDEA A REALITY.
  • You may be a Relational and your ability to gain and maintain friends has given you responsibilities beyond your imagination…BUT, YOUR FAILURE TO FOLLOW THROUGH ON PROMISES IS CATCHING UP AND YOUR FAN BASE IS FALLING AWAY.

Here’s some good and hard truth…you are the next generation of church leaders AND you are probably no good at systems…and it’s killing you (or at least slowing you down). I have met few visionaries, relationals, or creatives who are.

But….That is what I’m here for.

As I get to lead this amazing team and work with some of the most successful people in ministry today I want to pass on what I do and what I’ve learned to you.

My dream is to help you out on your journey,

speed you up so you can do more sooner,

and make you more effective…today.

Simply put, I want to bridge the gap between giftedness and effectiveness for the next generation of leaders.

I hope you’ll come along.  Welcome to my BLOG.

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