The YP Myth

I’ve been re-reading The E-Myth: Revisited and think it is simply one of the best ministry books out there…even though it is not a ministry book.

Let me give you the premise.  Basically, Michael Gerber (the author), works with small businesses.  Over the years of consulting, in almost every case, he has run into once inspired and excited “entrepreneurs” who are now tired, worn out, frustrated “laborers” whose businesses (the businesses of their dreams) have become a complete nightmare.  They have lost their love for what they do, they have neglected their families and friends, they have forgotten the joy they once got out of their jobs.  Most will close up shop and head back to work for someone else.

I’ve got to be honest.  This is what I see often in Youth Ministry and in ministry in general. I see tired and overworked people who don’t love what they do.  They are so behind and have so much to do that they can’t even step back to set priorities and get things under control.  I’ve seen family after family left in shambles because of ministry.  Men and women with so many “paper cuts” and they have no more blood to give.  Life comes along and sweeps them away.

I’ve got to be honest again.  I see people valiantly marching into that future every day.

And, If I can be honest a third time…I really don’t think that’s the way it needs to be.

Read this excerpt from the book except consider ministry as you do. Continue Reading…

Multiple Personalities

I’ve recently been re-reading one of my favorite must-read ministry books.

Strangely enough…It’s a business book.  The book is The E Myth: Revisited. If you haven’t…Buy it! The ministry applications will be clear right away if you’re a bit tired and overworked.

There are so many things to point out in this book and I have 3 or 4 partially written blogs on these topics that will make their way to the front page one of these days…but for now…I wanted to focus on one aspect discussed in this book that I think is completely relevant and important to those of use trying to run a ministry.

Michael Gerber, the writer, makes the point that every leader of a small business needs three personalities.

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Packing My Boxes

I have a strange (maybe pathological) need to organize and categorize things.

I’ve done this recently with the challenges I face on a day to day basis as a husband, dad, friend, and pastor and wanted to share what I came up with.  Maybe it will help you as it helps me…I hope that’s the case.  Maybe it will convince you I’ve got issues that need some professional attention…please let me know if that’s the case and send me some $ to pay for the help!

Here we go.  I mentally place all the challenges I face in one of four categories.

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Coachshef is 1 Year Old

Well…We did it!

It wasn’t like the ill-fated piano lesson venture of 84…

Or the elliptical purchase of a 05…

This one actually stuck…this one lasted.  We made it one full year.  126 posts!

When I started, the Godfather of my blog, John Saddington, told me that the most important thing to do was to set some attainable weekly goals for blogging.  I did…I figured I could do 3 or 4 a week.  He wisely talked me down.  He then told me to go ahead a pick some categories and start writing.

His point was that I won’t get it right anyway…so get going…and then change them when you figure them out.    He was right.

The blogs that I ended up writing almost always fell under some sort of leadership.

That being said, I think every leader needs to focus on 4 aspects of leadership (a blog to be written soon) and those are the basic idea to my new categories.

So, for my first act, as an “experienced” blogger I give you my new and improved categories.

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Going Dark…

Time for family….

Eliminating distractions….

As much as I love distractions….

No Twitter….

No Blogging….

Minimum email….

See you in the New Year!

Merry Christmas.

Love you guys.

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